Gender Relationship Control

I don’t deny that some people can ask a girl out without any skill, and some people can meet on a date with a casual conversation, that’s if he’s good looking or can tease.

　　If you do not have this power, you may want to learn my method to control the psychology of the opposite sex, step by step itemized implementation.

　　The so-called “psychological control”, is aimed at the human subconscious mind to communicate, psychological hypnosis master commonly used this skill.

　　There are two aspects of human communication: the conscious and the subconscious. While conscious communication will cause people to be on the defensive, subconscious communication often kills the enemy invisibly, leaving people unguarded but already trapped.

　　To give you the simplest example, you can also try this with your friend.

　　I hold out 1 finger and ask you, “How many is this?”

　　-You answer: 1.

　　I hold out 2 more fingers and ask you, “How many is this?”

　　–You answer: 2.

　　I’ll hold out 3 more fingers and ask you, “1 1 = how many?”

　　–You will look at my fingers and say: 3.

　　Why? Communicating with voice and language is conscious communication; communicating with body language is subconscious communication. The conscious mind has judgment, the subconscious mind has no judgment.

　　Highly skilled communication is good at utilizing the subconscious mind to achieve the purpose of psychological control.

　　Remember the three key words: trust, value, no pressure. The first chat, establish trust, false judgment

　　The first chat, sales master 80% of the energy used to “establish trust”, 20% of the energy used to “marketing products”; similarly, the love masters first chat to “establish trust” Similarly, the love masters should also focus on “building trust” in the first chat, and 20% is used to “show their own advantages”.

　　So, how to build trust in the first chat? Here is a psychological control technique – “False Criticism”.

　　For example, if you go to a clothing store to buy clothes, and the shopkeeper tells you how beautiful the clothes are, how good the quality is, and how original the style is, will you easily believe him?

　　— Not too easy to believe.

　　Then, if the shopkeeper says to you in the way of The Critique of Falsehood: This dress is not a mainstay of our store, and I have never found it very beautiful. But why does it look like it’s tailor-made on you, and it’s classy and upscale?

　　-You will feel that the store is very real and trustworthy, and the chances of purchase increase.

　　On the surface, you are criticizing, but in reality, you are praising. Criticizing is a step back, praising is a step forward, and this twist of step back and forward will make the other person feel sincere and trustworthy. This is “False Criticism”.

　　You can use “False Criticism” over and over again for the first time. If you want to make a point, you can add “Reverse Criticism” in front of the point – “It turns out…”. . but why ……?” , the sense of sincerity is multiplied and trust is dramatically increased.

　　“I thought that the two of us would have no topic of conversation and would be formal with each other for the first time, but why, it’s like we’ve known each other for a long time?”

　　“I thought all the pretty girls pretended to be cold and couldn’t return messages in time, but why are you so calm and approachable?”

　　Have you noticed that the above two examples of sentences, that is, they appear to be sincere, but also can lead the other party to “mutual honesty” and “close to people”? This is the core skill of the first chat, to build trust and draw people closer. Second chat, assuming a deal, implying value

　　Mature salespeople in the customer has not yet felt to buy, commonly used words: “This product can choose to use in the morning, you can also choose to use before going to bed, wake up early with the effect of hydration and moisturizing, before going to bed with a whitening repair, you want to hydrate or whitening?”

　　You see, this sales talk has assumed that the customer to buy, both the design of the program, but also implies the value of the product, which in the field of marketing is called “assuming the transaction”.

　　When the first chat has gained a certain amount of trust, the second chat can be used to push the relationship further.

　　In a relationship, you need to convey the “design proposal” and imply the potential value in the second chat, and use the “Assumption of Closing” to pave the way for a date.

　　You can portray it this way: “I know a particularly fun place in the city, but also know a particularly good Japanese restaurant, absolutely unforgettable, you say one day we go to play, or to eat?”

　　Either way, whether it’s “eat” or “play,” you’re assuming she’s on board with the date and conveying the potential value of the date.

　　Even if the person does not agree to go out with you, the subconscious mind has already begun to make the choice of “eat” or “play”. The third time, to minimize the pressure, invited to meet

　　After the first build trust, the second program design, the third chat can enter the invitation. The key point of the invitation is to minimize the pressure.

　　When you meet with strangers, everyone is under pressure, and this pressure comes from the human fear of the unknown and from the subconscious psychological burden.

　　Especially when you do not realize that the flow of “meet to see if it is appropriate”, will be the other subconscious convey “meet to make a choice” situation, and people in the choice in front of the pressure will be even more.

　　What a master needs to do is to downplay the pressure and reduce the burden on the subconscious mind.

　　In order to meet with customers, insurance companies often organize a variety of activities, such as health seminars, wealth cocktail parties, they never directly tell customers “you come to decide whether to buy insurance”, but through a variety of related activities to reduce the customer’s psychological pressure, so as to achieve the purpose of the invitation.

　　A friend of mine often uses the tactic of “asking the other person to take the subway or bus together”. The first meeting between two people is not considered a formal date, so the other person is not under any pressure. They meet on the bus, greet each other like old friends, and then they can always get off the bus together and go out to play or eat.

　　Conclusion: the weak rule the wise and the foolish rule the foolish

　　Any man has the opportunity to charm any woman, as long as the method is correct.

　　The knife brother talked about the surface of the relationship, the actual marketing psychology.

　　After addressing dating and how to define a relationship in 3 dates, read my other article.

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