How easy it is for a woman to chase a man

In society, girls also hold the initiative. In the process of realizing their ideals in life, girls will also strive and struggle to become stronger, more confident and more independent, just like boys. The woman is the modern society’s affirmation of the value of girls.

　　But back to the relationship, if a girl wants to take a boy, should she also be allowed to rely on her own efforts and struggles to fulfill this KPI, just like in the workplace?

　　Of course not!

　　Generally speaking, work and life are separate, the persona at work and the persona in the relationship, can conflict, can be similar, just can not be exactly the same.

　　Because a good love life, there will not be too many comparisons of winners and losers, but more satisfying tolerance.

　　And for women, gentleness, self-confidence, listening, understanding is your unique charm compared to men, to maintain a benign relationship, we must learn how to play these unique charm.

　　To put it in human terms, it makes women more feminine and men more masculine.

　　Of course, the premise of the correct play of our unique female charm is to first learn to avoid the lightning, to understand what behavior between you yarn into steel!

　　First take you to understand the basic psychology of boys.

　　In gender relations, we usually compare boys to hunters and girls to prey.

　　Because boys are stronger and have a greater desire for conquest, challenge, and fulfillment, they are more like hunters, and girls, on the other hand, are physically and physiologically stronger and have a greater desire for conquest, challenge, and fulfillment.

　　Girls, on the other hand, are physically and physically weaker, and psychologically more prone to a sense of dependence, so in the eyes of boys, girls are more like hunters.

　　So in the eyes of the boys, girls are more like prey, especially the favorite girls or beautiful girls, can arouse his desire to conquer and challenge.

　　And when a girl began to constantly take the initiative to pursue the boys, which obviously reduces his desire to conquer and challenge the girl, and in the eyes of most of the boys in the country, the girls take the initiative to accost the boys, or often take the initiative to tease the boys, will make him feel that you are not very casual, and will not be too serious about you.

　　So girls, if you really like the boy, chase him to pay attention to the method, to learn to play the unique advantages of women, gentle and reserved initiative, do not casually drop the initiative, to learn to let the boys when the hunter.

　　Well, not long-winded, now to share with you, which behavior is a big minefield.

　　1. Girls often send boys gifts, love letters to express love.

　　Like what was said earlier, this behavior will reduce the boy’s desire to conquer and challenge you, so that he has no sense of achievement in your relationship, the psychological can not satisfy him as a man’s feelings.

　　On the other hand, the woman with money out of the woman will be touched by the tycoon have real feelings? With gifts out of the boys will be touched by you have real feelings? Many boys are very realistic, he wants more than small favors.

　　So if you have this behavior, hurry to stop, no effect.

　　Learn to let the boys to spend money on you, not to spend money on you can not want the boys! Remember ah!

　　2. Girls often take the initiative to find topics to contact boys.

　　If you have reached the point where you can talk about nothing, stop often take the initiative to contact him, girls need boys often contact her to give her a sense of security, but the boys do not need to reduce the frequency of active contact with him, so that he can suddenly think of you in a day.

　　Also give the boys a chance to take the initiative, so that you yourself also know the boys in the end is not like you.

　　3. Girls often take the initiative to ask boys.

　　The first thing you need to do is to ask for a date with a guy. This kind of behavior, it will appear that you are a little anxious, anxious to eat hot tofu, in the relationship, many girls obviously have the opportunity, but is to get along, because of anxious, let him feel that he has already fixed you, there is no sense of accomplishment, and will consider stopping the development of you.

　　You can maintain a dating frequency, for example, he took the initiative 3 times, you take the initiative 1 time, so that you can.

　　4. Girls take the initiative to confess or take the initiative to propose.

　　Well 。。。。 ,, the likelihood of success is really not very high, or that people say, let the man more man, let him do what he should do, take the responsibility that you should take between you, confession and proposal are his task, waiting is also an important part of the relationship.