Good love requires three hearts

There is a famous psychology quote that reads, “If a woman wants to have a good life, she must have a heart. Have a heart is not to hurt others, but to better protect themselves .”

　　Good love, need a little heart. You can’t run love, and you can’t experience the sweetness of love. Both are in love for the first time, both are experiencing life for the first time, a lot of things we simply can’t anticipate, so saving for a rainy day is hard to do.

　　Everyone’s character is different, the idea of love is also very different, and everyone’s problems are different.

　　Do a smart woman, good at finding, good at changing, whether you can grasp the good belonging to you, perhaps in a split second.

　　Want to have a happy and sweet love, spend the heart essential. Therefore, good love, need these three heart. Love is not as good as love in the right place

　　01), “Mr. Love”, Song Ningyu and Gu Yao couple is in the eyes of outsiders of the golden children, but ultimately parted ways.

　　Gu Yao said, “I shouldn’t have abandoned everything and believed in you.”

　　But Song Ningyu asked her, “I’ve been supporting you for years, wearing the best clothes, living in the best house, with no wind or rain. What were you doing when I was out there working hard to earn money?”

　　For Gu Yao, these words from Song Ningyu could be described as word for word. There is no fear of giving in love, what’s scary is that the giving and the return can never be proportional, or that your true heart is never cherished.

　　Gu Yao never thought that her heart and soul in love would end up like this. She traded her youth for a bloody lesson – a woman must not become an accessory to love.

　　Marriage is a paradise to fulfill you, not a grave to destroy you. With this platform to make their own enhancement, only the most valuable.

　　02), do not let the heart of the wrong payment, do not let their own sacrifice in vain. Good love, you need to be a little careful.

　　Two people get along, you have to purposefully good to him, unreservedly pay, in fact, is also a kind of pressure. Sometimes what you call good and what he wants are not the same, judging others by your definition, such strong love is intimidating.

　　On the morning of the weekend, the husband originally wanted to take a break and have a lazy sleep. But the wife stiffly shouted her husband up and made him eat breakfast. Eating breakfast was important, but not what the husband really wanted.

　　Love is more quality when you put the giving in just the right place. Love is motivation, not pressure, and putting care where it should be placed. How to capture a man’s heart is to know what he wants. A set life is boring, know what your other half really wants to be able to navigate in love. Properly hide their smarts and emotions

　　01), in “Chicken Feathers Fly to Heaven”, Luo Yuzhu educated his son: “A smart person, if you can’t learn to hide your sharpness, is going to be very troublesome.”

　　Being smart and capable is a good thing for a woman, but love isn’t a competition, it doesn’t distinguish between winning and losing, nor does it distinguish between up and down. With men, you can’t be too strong or too smart.

　　Seeing and saying everything will hurt you in the end. Often two people get along, too strong women do the most, also hurt the deepest.

　　Li Baoli, the housewife in “An Arrow Through the Heart”, is a capable housewife, hard-working, single-handedly supporting a family. But because of her competence, she is complacent and feels that her husband is weak and incompetent.

　　For her husband, not the slightest leeway, in front of the workers to humiliate her husband; after her husband demoted to intensify his oppression; mother-in-law came to the city has never given her a good face …….

　　One little thing after another, the husband couldn’t catch his breath, and on a cold, rainy day, he chose to jump into the river to kill himself and leave this world that made him sad.

　　After her husband left, her mother-in-law hated her, her children hated her, and even once wanted to sever the mother-child relationship with her ……

　　At the end of the story, Li Baoli chose to leave, she said: “My child, it seems that never like other children as crazy ah laugh ah play ah, if I go after he can be like other children as happy as that play, ask me to do anything.”

　　02), There is no one right or wrong in the failure of this marriage. It was the two people who chose to treat it differently: Paulie Lee was too strong and always decided others by her own will.

　　Whether it is her husband or her children, she wants to control in her own hands. But people are independent, no one wants to be controlled by others, especially for a man.