How is your relationship with your wife?

We have loved quarreling since the beginning of our relationship. We could still tolerate each other at that time, even though we both felt that the other was not the person we wanted to marry, but in the end we ended up together by accident. You can imagine, without an emotional foundation, how could two people like us possibly live a good life together? After we got married, we quarreled almost every day, and we would fight before nightfall. My wife has a bad mouth, and the more she scolds me, the more I would hit her. We were indeed young at that time, and we didn’t know how to cherish each other. We both had many faults. I liked to play mahjong and play games, and I didn’t like to go to work.

I spent money recklessly, and my monthly salary was not enough. There was a surplus, and we didn’t care about housework at all. We didn’t have any savings, no savings, and no plan. We lived in a daze for several years until our two children were born. Our lives remained the same. We both had cheating partners. That year we were ready to divorce, and we both decided to let go. Life was too painful, but we still didn’t get divorced. We went to the marriage registration office three times in total. The first time, they said that the divorce agreement we wrote was not suitable, so we took it back to revise it, and told us how to revise it. The second time, they were not there, and the third time they didn’t get it done either. I forgot the specific reason. If we didn’t get divorced, we just had to make do with each other.

In addition, the two children grew up slowly. Just like this, day by day, our relationship has always been in hatred for each other. Cold violence and ignoring each other have become commonplace. Sometimes we don’t say a word for dozens of days. It may be God’s will. God destined us to divorce in the end. Just two years ago, I fell in love with a colleague from the unit. Although we both had families, we secretly dated when we had the chance. Although we both didn’t want to destroy our respective families, my wife still noticed it and insisted on divorce. I was also angry and decided to divorce. This time the divorce went smoothly and the procedures were completed in no time, ending our 29-year marriage.

After the divorce, I gradually understood a truth. If a couple originally planned to divorce, they should divorce early, don’t drag it out, and don’t think that it will change the other party’s mind. The original reason for divorce will still become the reason for divorce today after several years.

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When it is raised, many people will feel puzzled: Do you need a reason to be good to your wife? In fact, you really need a reason to be good to your wife.