How to save love with one sentence

The best way to enhance the relationship after breaking up is communication. There are many kinds of communication, including effective communication and ineffective communication.

Effective communication can help you create a better atmosphere and environment to improve the success rate of recovery. You can show your personal charm through your language and let the other party know you again through communication.

Ineffective communication will only make the other party feel that you are boring and think that the purpose of your chat is to recover. It may even make the other party tired of chatting with you because you have nothing to say. Some people do not know what kind of distance is most appropriate when recovering, and say some words that are inconsistent with their status, so that the other party will slowly stay away from you.

No matter what kind of other party is, it is possible to transform ordinary emotions into love through your effective communication. It is also possible that through your later performance, if the other party has feelings for you, the development of your relationship will be enhanced, and you can get back together naturally.

So how to achieve effective communication in the process of recovery?

1. Create a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere

The most feared thing about the chat after breaking up is that it is too formal. When you are together, you dare to say anything, but after breaking up, you shrink back, which must make the other party feel alienated and embarrassed.

Therefore, you should relax yourself during the chat. After all, you were lovers and you are still familiar with each other. When you return to the relationship of friends, you should be more casual and natural, so that you can appear less purposeful and let the other party express his or her ideas normally without pressure.

When you have questions to ask the other party or you have any ideas to express, you can do this. Two different ways of expression will give people two different feelings. Here is the simplest example of “eating”:

The first one is, have you eaten?

(It is a very simple sentence and very ordinary. When I hear this sentence, I personally think that this person is talking about nothing, similar to what are you doing.)

The second one is, I ate xx two days ago and it was delicious. I will bring you to try it next time. How about you? Have you eaten now?

(If the other party says she hasn’t eaten, you can take the initiative to say that you will try it now. If the other party says she has eaten, you can introduce what is so delicious, and the topic will come up to see if she is interested. At the same time, it also enriches the sentence “Have you eaten?” In fact, the key is that you want to eat for her, but being too direct will appear very rigid, and when the other party replies to you that she has eaten, then your topic ends.)

In life, sometimes you will encounter questions that you want to ask but are difficult to ask. You can use some clever language as a prelude. The focus of the speech seems to be in the front, but in fact, the following rhetorical question is the key, so that the other party feels that you are asking naturally, rather than asking with a strong purpose.

This way of chatting can make the other party feel relaxed and comfortable, and everything will be under your control.

Then the pleasant atmosphere usually refers to speaking with emotions. Your more positive and active feelings will be conveyed to the other party, so people who know how to chat can drive the other party’s emotions. This is why some people stare at the screen and laugh when chatting.

You can decide according to the content of your chat, and appropriately match some jokes, insults, and some funny jokes. The more natural, the better. This will eliminate the other party’s vigilance against you, and make the other party feel that being with you is a very happy thing, looking forward to chatting with you, and thus deepen their good impression of you.

2. Know how to listen

You should be a good partner for the other party to play with, and also be the other party’s support. Only such a person can become her boyfriend again, because the best relationship between lovers is as natural as friends.

At the same time, a boy who knows how to listen can also show your stability and maturity. Don’t disrupt the other party’s rhythm when the other party is talking to you, and tell some jokes, but when the other party needs your comfort, you can understand the other party’s needs in time. In fact, girls are very simple. Telling you something unhappy means trusting you. She doesn’t expect you to help her, but she longs for your recognition and your company and listening. Sometimes you just need to complain with her, and she will be very happy.

After listening, you can stand on the same front with the other party, which is also a manifestation of your witty communication, so effective communication does not necessarily require you to keep outputting.

If you can be both active and calm, it will be of great help to the development of your relationship in the later stage.