What is a fake breakup?

Fake breakups include these three situations

In relationships, there are those who fall in love, and of course there are those who break up. Every day, people break up, and it is not surprising. Of course, some people’s breakups are real breakups, but some people’s breakups are just temporary, which can be regarded as a fake breakup. After all, people live in this world, with too many frustrations and too many things, and it is impossible for everything to go as planned. Therefore, fake breakups also exist. So what kind of breakup is considered a fake breakup?

01

Pretend to break up in order to achieve a certain goal

First of all, the two people discussed it at the same time, just pretending to break up to achieve a certain goal. For example, because two people want to work in the same company, but the company’s rules and regulations do not allow company employees to fall in love, so the two people get along in a way that they are not in love. In many TV dramas, I believe everyone has seen it, such as “Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou Do Not Believe in Love”, the hero and heroine are in such a situation.

02

Still in love, temporary breakup

In addition to pretending to break up in order to achieve a certain goal, there is another kind of still in love, but temporary breakup. When two people are together, there will definitely be some conflicts, and it is normal for lovers to quarrel. When the quarrel is intense, it is very likely that the words of breaking up will be said, so the two people are likely to break up temporarily because of temper, but they still care about each other in their hearts, and such a breakup will generally not last too long.

03

Long-distance relationship without contact for a long time

Another kind of breakup is the breakup caused by long-term lack of contact. Two people in a long-distance relationship usually call and send text messages to maintain their relationship. If one of them suddenly doesn’t know what happened, he suddenly can’t contact the other person, even if he is helpless and helpless, he can’t find the other person in every corner of the other’s city. In this case, it is generally a breakup, but it is just a false breakup, because the two people did not make the decision to break up at the same time, but it looks like a breakup.

In emotional life, every relationship we have is hard-won, so when dealing with emotional problems, don’t be too extreme, and don’t mention the word breakup at every turn. If you often mention breaking up, it means that you don’t value this relationship very much, because in your opinion, this relationship can disappear at any time and anywhere. In the end, I hope everyone can take their feelings seriously and then harvest their own happiness.

Breaking up is something that is difficult for people in love to accept. However, breaking up can be true or false. A true breakup means that the other party no longer loves you and has completely denied you in his heart. A false breakup is actually a conflict between the lovers, just a quarrel. Friends in love should know how to distinguish between false breakups and true breakups. Don’t let love slip away easily. How to distinguish between false breakups and true breakups?

1. Still keep in touch

If it is a false breakup, the other party generally will not blacklist your phone, WeChat or QQ (even if you are deleted in a rage, you can add it back quickly). Don’t care how bad the other party’s attitude is. As long as she still cares about you, answers your calls and replies to your text messages, then at least she is still communicating with you, and the hope of redemption is very great.

If it is a real breakup, you can’t contact them by any means, they won’t answer the phone, text messages, WeChat, QQ all block you, and treat you as a complete stranger. Therefore, whether the communication is normal is an important indicator to judge whether it is a fake breakup or a real breakup.