How to approach beautiful women on the street

I think that only street-flirting can test the comprehensive strength of a true pick-up artist. Those who have never picked up girls by street-flirting are all keyboard warriors.

1. Before the opening

Before you start chatting up girls, you must understand two truths:

How to chat up beautiful girls on the street and get their contact information?

1. The success rate of chatting up girls depends on your first impression of her, including: dressing, expression, eyes, and body language, not what you have to say.
2. The purpose of chatting up girls is to have a romantic relationship with girls, not to get their phone numbers.

For the first point, what you should do before chatting up girls is to improve your dressing to make you look more fashionable or more secure. Exercise your eyes and change your body attitude (you must know that every expression and hand movement of yours will directly affect the girl’s view of you).

For the second point, you must understand that everything you do and say is for “developing an intimate relationship” rather than “getting your phone number.”

What is the probability that a girl who is unwilling to stop and listen to you will give you her phone number? You stop a girl and play tricks on her, so that she is very reluctant to give you her phone number. What do you think is the chance that she will go out with you? This kind of thing can actually be called “social intuition”. You should learn to feel the possible direction of your future through some small details.

2. About the opening

Speaking of the opening, the most important thing is undoubtedly the way of opening.

There are only three ways that most people will use for the opening:

1. Direct opening

Directly state the purpose, the key is your personal image.

2. Indirect opening

Talk to the girl through topics such as asking for directions and time, and wait for the right time to leave contact information. The key is the conversation when laying the groundwork before.

3. Situational opening

Introduce topics according to the surrounding environment, such as: buying books, buying clothes, museums, art exhibitions, music festivals, and wait for the right time to leave contact information. The key point is luck, whether a girl you like just happens to appear at this time.

Of the three methods, only the direct opening is applicable to all environments, so today we will only talk about the direct opening.

3. Opening process

(The bold font is what I said.)

Hi, hello. The girl stopped and looked at you. (The girl’s response)

Relax, I mean no harm. (Must smile, the language instruction in NLP, let the girl relax and enter the interactive state better) 89% of girls will smile after hearing this sentence.

My friend and I just passed by you (or, I just waited for a friend here). (Pause, look into the girl’s eyes)

Seeing you, I thought about it and decided to come up and say hello to you. (Look into the other person’s eyes slowly and sincerely)

At this point, if the girl does not avoid or doubt, you can directly expose your intention.

But my friend is still waiting for me over there, is there any way to contact you. (After saying this, he took out his mobile phone)

How about I write down your WeChat (your WeChat is…).

Okay, let’s contact each other on WeChat. (Don’t leave without saying a word after receiving the number)

Bye.

When chatting up someone, you can add the following optional topics:

Your accent doesn’t sound like you’re from Chengdu (or should be Chengdu). (This kind of answer generally has two directions, yes and no)

Shanghai? Are all the girls there like you? It seems I have to move there quickly. Are you born and raised there? (Smile)