Throw away your shyness and strike up a conversation with your boy crush!

Are you a very shy girl, see him often blushing, do not know what to do?

　　Is not to see him, all the body’s functions suddenly dysfunctional, originally articulate you na na can not speak? Even originally smart and lively you, see him suddenly dumb as a chicken?

　　Poor silly girl, at this moment you must not think that they are sick, but you are in love, the boy who touches your heart, is the cause of your disorder “culprit”.

　　But unfortunately, from your performance, you can judge that you are a shy and timid girl, in fact, girls are naturally more shy, which is not a big deal, but you can not be shy and miss your life event. So, what to do?

　　Shyness inappropriate line

　　Women are accustomed to passive waiting into a consensus, in the name of shyness not to take the initiative to hit on, in fact, can not pull the face, afraid of losing their own frame. Between men and women, it is a war of patience you into my back, if you do not go forward intentionally show their good sense, crush him will also be sitting in a fishing boat. Especially when you have the misfortune to fall in love with a million people, many women with you to grab this scarce species, if you are silent, your love will die in silence. Shyness blocking the way, we have to clear the obstacles to love, take the initiative to hit on, for their own love positive fight!

　　Before hitting on someone, be sincere first

　　Some sisters because of shyness, actually came up with the idea of letting other people on behalf of the conveyance of feelings or push the law. In addition to doing this in front of each other to show your cowardice, more to each other left you no sincerity, and may even leave each other intentional fraud, teasing him the impression that not only did not achieve the purpose of conveying love and admiration, but also let the other party to you to have a feeling of disgust, and then miss your one-on-one pick up a good opportunity.

　　If you dare to put your adoration directly to his love, perhaps instead of the other side will be touched by your sincerity. Do people ask for fair and square, in the fight for love on the same need to show your true nature, it is difficult to confide in person, you can use the phone, newsletter, e-mail way to their own thoughts, their own emotions really show the other side, remember, do not forget to fall your name.

　　Repeat, the subtext of the conversation

　　If you do not study in a class, or do not work in a department, it will be very difficult to see each other often, and usually work and study without any contact, daily life does not have any whatsoever intersections, at most, will be in the dinner, the aisle encounter, belong to the nodding acquaintance, so this relationship is a little bit let a person is not embarrassed. However, if you want to make your relationship closer, then you need to spend a little more thought, for example, at a certain point in time to create non-stop “chance encounters”, or to take the curved route to save the country to cause his friends around the gossip uproar, you, even if the person is mediocre, the camera rate is high, naturally, won the top of the odds is also high.

　　Of course, repeat, but also to repeat the natural and reasonable, so that things become as if only the two of you understand the tacit understanding. For example, a certain moment is always “accidental” encounter, a certain period of time he was late you are also late, this kind of creation of something like “fate”, will soon allow you to be very natural initiative to find him to talk to chat.

　　“Pick up”, can also be in the eyes of the ”hookup”